This approach seems self-defeating when you consider that the goal is love - opening and merging your one life with the lives of others. Love requires openness. The point is to be changed by, and to witness change in, one another. Slowly, this back-and-forth transforms the shared reality we call the world. Love is less noun than verb: not a thing to get, but a process to set in motion. Moira Wegel
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The idea of love as a verb is the idea that love is more than a feeling. It is about opening up to others and exploring their lives. The process of loving involves seeing what someone else is experiencing and reflecting on it.

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